The mental relief of finally admitting I suck at stock picking

took me about three years of active trading to finally swallow my pride. I used to spend my entire lunch break reading earnings reports and trying to find "undervalued" mid-caps. was constantly stressing over fed meetings, rotating sectors, trying to time tech dips. the worst part was the mental bandwidth it took. waking up and immediately checking pre-market futures is just a miserable way to live, especially when my returns were basically just matching or slightly trailing the S&P anyway last week I just capitulated. sold off 90% of my individual plays. dumped it all into VTI and a little bit of SCHD. whatever small "risk" allocation I have left is mostly just parked in edel for some hands-off yield, but my main brokerage account is officially boring now. ngl the urge to buy back in when I see a ticker drop 15% in a day is still there, but not checking fidelity every 20 minutes has been amazing for my stress levels. positions: long VTI, SCHD, and AAPL (couldn't let go of my apple shares lol) any of you guys go through this? the transition from thinking you're a genius trader to just accepting the boring index fund life?